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TRUE JOY

INTRODUCTION

1. It is not absolutely guaranteed that we will always have a life of Joy while we live here in the flesh, but the Bible reveals to us a way to come in contact with the Joy that comes from God.

2.This lesson is designed to help us prioritize our lives so that we can achieve the greatest Joy in this life and the one to follow.

3. Let us search for the Joy that is found in the scriptures, and apply it to our lives.

4. We are going to be using an acrostic to teach this lesson so that we can all remember the lesson today.

I. Jesus first. (Luke 9:59-62)

A. Before family.

-Matthew 10:34-39

-Mother, Father, Son or Daughter, we need to realize that in order to be worthy of the Lord we must put him before our own families.

-It may be difficult at times to turn away personal activities and events in one’s family in order to serve the Lord, but it is what we must do to have real JOY.

B. Before friends.

-Galatians 1:10; James 4:4.

 -Who is your best friend? Most of us are closer to our best friends than anyone else, and we enjoy spending a great deal of our free time with them.

-When it comes to serving our Lord, and giving Him top priority, we must realize that this means even above our best of friends.

-If you choose to be a friend to the world rather than a friend to the Lord, we show nothing but an ungrateful spirit toward His welcome to be His friend. (John 15:13-15) May the Lord be your best friend?

C. Before employer

-Matthew 6:33; Acts 5:29

-Many Christians in our society are tried by this very difficult decision, between their work place and the Lord Jesus Christ.

-Time for the workplace, before time for the Lord.

-Completing man’s will when we should be completing God’s will.

-Caught up in physical gain rather than spiritual gain.

-Our Lord did not think twice about obeying God’s will.

-Although He prayed “let this cup pass from Me”, we know His final decision was “Not my will, but thine be done.”

-Just as Christ realized that it was not always easy to obey God, we know that the scripture teach us that God’s will was done, and Jesus went to the cross.

-May we all have this same obedient attitude as we try to serve God and obey Him. (Hebrews 5:8-9)

-Who are you obeying today? Are you able to repeat the words of Peter, when confronted with a decision to put Christ first (“We ought to serve God rather than men.), or do you find yourself giving in to the world and it ways.

-Are you working for the Lord or for men on the Lord’s day? It is a commendable thing to see a good group of faithful Christians who allow nothing to stand in their way of serving God.

D. Before material possessions

-Matthew 13:44-46

-If you truly appreciated the kingdom of God, Jesus said it is like finding a pearl of great price or a field which had buried treasure, and it means so much to us that we are willing to give up everything to have it.

-We must be careful that we do not get caught up in earthly wealth, to the point that we are hoarding riches that are unnecessary for the Joy that can be found in God’s kingdom. (See Luke 12:13-21).

E. Before yourself.

-Matthew 20:26-28

-We must realize that even Jesus the Son of God, left His home in glory and came to serve and not to be served.

-Jesus put God’s will of service and obedience before anything else in this world, and we are to do the same in service to our Lord. (John 4:34; 17:4)

-We must follow the example of Christ and serve in His kingdom that we might be pleasing to God.

-It is vitally important that we realize that Christ is first in all things that we can truly comprehend the joys of the faith.

II. Others second (Philippians 4:3-4)

-After we realize that Christ is first in all things we then put others second.

A. Marriage partner.

-Ephesians 5:22-33

-There is no other relationship in God’s eyes that shares such a special bond.

-This is a relationship where two individuals leave their father and mother cleave unto one another and become one flesh.    

-We have very specific duties to one another when we enter this wonderful relationship.

-WIVES:

-Are to submit unto their husbands as unto the Lord.                                               

- Let the husband be the head as Christ is in the church.                                               

-Reverence your husbands

-HUSBANDS:                                      

-Must love their wives as Christ loved the church giving their lives for them.                                               

-Must love their wives as themselves, in cherishing and nourishing them, in love.

B. Children

-Ephesians 6:4; Titus 2:4

-As adults and parents we all have responsibilities to our children, and we must learn to complete them when putting the Lord first.

-Fathers must bring their children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

-Older women are encouraged to teach the young women and young men those godly characteristics of life that are so needed in a society like ours today.

-Once we have worked out our own salvation and we are serving the Lord, we must realize our responsibilities to others, especially the upcoming generation of our children.

C. Parents

-Ephesians 6:1-3

-It is just as important for the young people in our audience to realize that they must obey and honor their parents, as it is to honor and obey the Lord.

-It you make the claim to be following and obeying Christ, but you are not being obedient to your parents, then you must make that right and heed this scripture.

-There are too many children today that express independence from their parents, when they should hear and heed their every word. (Proverbs 1:8; 23:22)

-If we want to please God and have real Joy, let us seek to honor our father and mother as we put the Lord first in our lives.

D. Neighbor

-Galatians 5:14

-We all have a responsibility to those who we come in contact with everyday.

-When we speak of our neighbor, we are not talking about neighboring houses in relation to ours, but we are focusing on everyone from friend to enemy that we come in contact with on a daily basis. (Matthew 5:43-48)

-We must also remember that the Lord is first, but we do have an obligation to others that we come in contact with. (Matthew 22:36-40)

-The Lord is without a doubt first in our lives, but we must grasp our responsibilities toward our fellowman and do our Father’s will.

III. Yourself last                       

-If the world could only grasp this concept, we would live in a much better place.

-If everyone saw themselves as last and served humbly those around them, we would all be first.   

-If we see ourselves as last and serve and love others, and others considered themselves to be last and served and loved others, we would all be served while being a servant and therefore become first in the kingdom of God.

A. We must put ourselves last.

-Philippians 2:17-18; I Thessalonians 2:8; II Timothy 2:10.

 -We see that Paul was willing to put his selfish desires away and serve and give to others.

-Paul took joy in putting self last, was willing to hold others near and dear to him as more important, and had an eager desire to lead others to salvation in Christ Jesus at whatever the cost.

B. Give yourself to the cause of Christ and to others.

-II Corinthians 8:5; Galatians 6:2-4

-The church of Macedonia had given themselves to the Lord and to others before they considered or thought about selfishness.

-We are told to bear the burdens of others, not because of man will, but to fulfill the law of Christ.

C. We must share our blessings with others.

-Romans 1:11; Acts 20:35; Matthew 19:16-22; 7:12; Luke 10:29-37

-We must desire to share our gifts that the Lord has blessed us with, and give them to others.

-Our Lord Jesus Christ tells us it is more blessed to give than to receive, and Paul says that we are to support the weak, an never neglect that responsibility.

-If we want to be complete we must not get caught up in selfish wealth and do our very best to treat others with our blessings.

-Jesus taught us to do unto others as we would have them to do to us.

Blessings for blessings.

OR

Cursings for cursings.

-We must be Samaritans in a world of sinners as we enter into this world only to bless and curse not. Many may pass by and see those that are needy, but we must be compelled to stop and be a servant of our Lord.

D. We must sympathize with others, instead of feeling sorry for ourselves.

-Romans 12:15; Philippians 2:4

-We must understand that we need to stop focusing on our troubles so much, and consider all those who are less fortunate.

-The Boy Who Cries For New Shoes Is Humbled By The Boy With No Feet.

-Sometimes we really over express our needs, and they are not one of life’s necessities.

-We should accept blessings as they come and try to share them with as many others as we can.

CONCLUSION

1. Do you want the JOY that comes fro your heavenly Father?

2. We must begin by putting away our own will and start by giving our life to the Lord in service.

-We must obey His will today, and become a child of God.

BELIEVING IN HIS WORD AND ON HIS SON

REPENTING OF THE SINS IN YOUR LIFE

BAPTIZED FOR THE FORGIVENESS OF THOSE SINS

FAITHFUL LIFE OF SERVICE TO GOD.

-After we give our lives to the Lord, we then seek to aid others in any way possible, putting our selfish desires last, and seeking to do the will of the Father.

-Will you accept the JOY that can be yours today? Will you obey the simple commands of the Lord and turn back to the One who loved you enough to die for you?

-If you are in subject to this gospel call, we invite to come and be made right.                                              

 

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